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Tuesday, May 09, 2006
yesterday night, my previous kid from the childrens' home called me, tellin me bout her sch and all, then she told me that she's being bullied in sch by another girl, she and her fren are being hurled vulgarities by the ah lian, so i advised her to ask the bully, why is she scolding you for nothing? but my kid replied that 'i then dun wanna talk to her loh, lang fei kou shui'.


background of the relationship between my kid and i, i taught her a almost 2 yrs after which she went to sec sch then she gotta leave home cos the home only let primary sch students stay, the sec sch kids can only go there for a day care thingy and gotta leave to go back to their own homes by 8pm, after i started teaching her, i sorta became her role model and da jie jie, she ask me bout changes of our body during puberty and about boyfriends and valentines' day and about friendship. She is the only girl in her whole family, even all her other cousins are boys that's why she has so much questions for me. I used to dread giving her tuition cos she will always scold me 'stupid ar u! like tis also can be uni student! u dunno how to teach properly isit!' those kinda stuff and me in shocked jus sit there n listen. Anyway, in the end we grew to like each other and she stoopped scolding me, and we miss each other very much after she left the childrens' home. The current kid i am teaching has an extremely complicated family and a history of domestic violence, haven really built concrete rapport with her cos she's rather difficult.


Anyway, the point is, if u girls were me, how would u guys advice my kid on the sch bully hurling vulgarities at her situation? now she hates her sch and dreads goin to sch, i did advise her to go to her teacher n ask for help, but she says her teacher wont be much help and describe the teacher as useless, it may be that she is in the normal technical stream that's why she's feeling down as well, cos she wanted to go to normal academic. She is a good kid, with a kind heart, but its such a pity that our society neglects and forgets about kids like them. She makes me feel thankful.. Do share with me how would u guys do and advice ya? be it in the chat box or leave a comment. =)

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